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Friday, August 14, 2015

Elitism

Recently read a lot of news about elitism. Then people started kpkb on equality and equity like this boy call Russell. Wah Lau, sibei complicated la. Dr Og England buay sai one, cannot understand simi lai eh?

Actually Dr Og also sibei dulan some of these elite schools students sometimes. I have come across some really hao lian ya ya papaya students from RI / RGS. Talk very big like they know a lot about medicine also. Hello! Lim pek went to elite school when your mother haven't even ovulated you. You better show some respect ar like in those Taiwan shows call us 前辈!(Please don't call uncle hor. I not that old, thank you.)

Anyway, you go good school doesn't mean you elite liao. I check dictionary and dictionary say elite means:

"select group that is superior in terms of ability or qualities to the rest of a group or society."


So you can elite in values, elite in sports, elite in talking cock (like Dr Og, now put your hands down!), etc etc. If you are just elite in PSLE score, please go achieve something in real life before you come show pattern.


A good example of elite is the commandos. Every year they get best unit in army. But they also train the hardest and when war comes, they probably sacrifice first also. Plus many special force people will never reveal their identity and never get the glory they deserve.

This young boy, Russell, also sacrifice. He jit tao kamikaze. Shows his EQ sibei not elite. And Russell, if you go NS that time, complain here pain there pain go see lokun, you better show some respect and remember to call the lokuns 前辈!




5 comments:

  1. Hi, my name is Kok How 20 from Singapore
    The reason I am posting everywhere for help is because I am currently having an issue that people can’t help and even myself I don’t understand why am I experiencing this.

    So basically to start off my problem, this happened to me 3 weeks ago, PLEASE NOTE I DO NOT HAVE THIS FEELINGS/THOUGHTS THROUGH OUT MY LIFE AND EVEN I HAVE IT’S JUST WHEN MY SHIRT/COLLAR IS TOO TIGHT/UNCOMFORTABLE AROUND MY NECK. SO DO NOT SAY THINGS LIKE CHANGE MY THOUGHTS, DON’T THINK ABOUT IT AND I AM THINKING TOO MUCH.

    Issues/Problems
    Inside my mind, I would constantly have thoughts/feeling of the shirt/collar around my neck like once I move or the collar/shirt move, I would feel it inside my head. To say it in a simple way, I am feeling it consciously while everyone felt it sub consciously like an automatic signal to your mind. To felt it inside my head or ‘AWARE’ of this EVERY SINGLE TIME, it is bringing my focus away, I can’t seems to do anything without being aware of the neck shirt feeling. Example, doing work, at home, standing still, eating, sleeping, SEXUALLY LIKE I GOT NO ERECTION ON THINGS I WOULD NORMALLY HAVE ERECTION ON & any other thing EXCEPT EXCEPT EXCEPT when I take it off, obviously I wouldn’t be aware of it when I am wearing nothing right! So I would tend to take it out at home to ease the awareness away as it is causing me FUSTRATION AND ‘GOING CRAZY FEELING’. It like suddenly I am aware of TOUCH except when I touch it myself! AND ONLY THE SHIRT/COLLAR/NECK AND NOT ANYWHERE ELSE.
    NOTES: PLEASE DO SAY JUST SAY STRESS OR CHANGE OF ENVIRONMENT, I FELT TOALLY RELIEVED WHEN I AM NOT WEARING MY SHIRT OR I PUT MY HAND AROUND MY NECK. THE STRESS INSTANTLY GONE, BUT WHEN I PUT IT BACK ON, I WOULD START TO HAVE THE AWARENESS AND START TO STRESS MYSELF OUT ABOUT THIS ISSUES.
    Week 1
    It was my 1st week interning at my company and I was very excited and can’t wait to start working and doing things I like passionately. Day 1 was alright, when it comes to Day 3, I started feeling this ONLY DURING TRAIN RIDES to work and won’t have the awareness out of this period. I WAS ABLE TO WORK AND DO EVERYTHING NORMALLY WITHOUT THE AWARENESS, I even went service on Sunday and not having any issues.

    Week 2
    Suddenly, Monday, as I was taking the train ride to work, I still felt it as usual, so I googled it out like this “WERID NECK FEELING” and started reading what others are saying or experiencing. As far as I know, straight after this, I could feel it EVERYTIME and got aware of it inside my mind. So week 2 was like hell for me, I googled A LOT and search every possible illness sickness I could have, but everything seem fine to me. DO NOT SAY I AM MENTALLY UNSTABLE PLEASE, I mean life was so good to me why would I become mentally unstable because of suddenly for no reason having this awareness. All it seem to me is that I JUST HAVE TO BECOME UNAWARE OF IT and everything should be OKAY. Anyway this week for hell of me, telling people what I am feeling and all would have question marks on their face and some brush it off by saying I thinking too much. This week, I totally become a changed person, I am unable to focus in everything I do, I go home straight to work and sleep and MY FRIENDS, FAMILY MEMBERS ARE GETTING SO WORRIED FOR ME. NOTE: Not knowing any solution or problem I am having and constantly having this awareness inside my mind, ALL I WANT IS TO END MY LIFE, SO EVERYDAY IS LIKE A FIGHT AGAINST WILL.

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  2. Week 3
    After Singapore’s Jubilee Year and National Day, Tuesday I didn’t go to work, I felt I need to go see a doctor, I went to a polyclinic, If any of you who do not know what is it, it is a clinic that people go to see normal doctors or get referral letter from it for specialist. So I went and told the doctor about it, all she could do is just stated down what I say, the neck shirt collar etc….. . In the end I got a referral letter to see a psychiatrist at IMH a public hospital. The appointment is 27 Aug and I was like WOW, u expect me to wait 3 weeks when in 1 week of this, I am almost going crazy. For the past 1 week, I was so scared I didn’t wore shirt if not I would wear singlet to sleep of at home. I went home continued to search for any solution I could get to solve/cure my issues. I came across hypnosis and thought it might be a learned habit or an event which triggered this. I called up a private hypnotherapist and arranged a consultation with on Tuesday too. I booked a hypnosis session with them on Wednesday and I went with an open heart hoping it would help me relieve this awareness and issue. But it didn’t help. Friday came, my parents is Buddhist and they said they would bring me to temple as ask the medium for help, like see if it’s something spiritually or something they could help. This was yesterday. Today, I woke up hoping it would be better, but I was disappointed, I was still having the awareness and issue.

    Now
    Now all I could think of is HOPELESSNESS, LOW, SAD, and FUSTRATED at how my life changed upon this issue and COMMITING SUICIDE is a solution to me inside my mind. I know u guys would say life will get better, don’t be stupid or don’t be coward. BUT PEOPLE PUT YOURSELF IN MY SHOES and think, if you were to have this issue, constant frustration from this awareness, off focus from work and with friends and family. I felt like I am a different person too not toward good but something who seem like he just been through a lot of problems. Not knowing what cause this, who cause this, how to solve it, who do I seek to. I AM BASICALLY ALONE ALONE ALONE fighting this with 0% of winning. This is how I feel, seeing my family members and friends get worried for me, i feel sad and angry at myself but what could I do? I see myself not getting better as there’s no solution and what could possibly happen if I go seek medical help, they would deem me as MENTALLY UNSTABLE and send me to a mental hospital. Please do not say things like it’s anxiety/depression, you know it’s not and if you it is go search, I used to think it could be this, but people who got anxiety depression issue all said they only can’t wear turtle neck, collar shirt as they can’t stand the pressure. I do not have THYROID as I do not have any symptoms of it and if so I would feel pressure around my neck/throat and not having awareness of my collar/shirt inside my mind.  I SEE NO LIGHT, I SEE NO MEANING IN LIFE, I AM HOPELESS BEYOND HELP. I am so desperate till the point I just want to post online my experience and hoping SOMEONE just SOMEONE, my angel? My saviour? I do not know! That can save my life and save me from this issue. All I could do now is pray that miracle happening to me like I would suddenly become unaware of it. But well, what’s the possibility anyway. I REALLY HOPE SOMEONE who know how to help me and my issues.

    SORRY! I got D7 for my English, so pardon my grammars, language, vocabulary and structure of sentences.
    Please contact me if possible
    Kokhow2007@gmail.com

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    1. Anonymous2:40 AM

      New age solution:

      Get a regression. You may be killed in your previous lives by hanging/suffocated via neck.

      Boring but effective solution:

      Get a psychiatrist to put you on med.

      Mental unstable doesn't mean you have to STAY in IMH/mental hospital. Not every anxiety/depression patient CANNOT wear turtle necks. Bipolar disorder is a chronic mental disease trigger often during young adult hood. Are you one of them?

      Yes it feels like its end of the world, 12 years ago I was in your shoes and I survived. You can. TOO.

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  3. Anonymous5:20 PM

    Dr Og, you are finally back! Really love reading your blog posts. If you can be more regular, that would be great.:)

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